Our main message at Tantric Arts of Love is to share the great secret of ancient Lineage Tantra; it is medicine to heal body, mind, and spirit. Tantra is truly a healing system versus a form of religion, it is mind and body training that can be added to any religious or spiritual path, being practiced sexually or non-sexually. Based on the understanding of the process of illness and suffering itself as taught in the Medical Tantras, the Shangpa Kagyu Lineage brings vast wisdom and instruction for healing all kinds of afflictions with physical and energy practices.
I have personally suffered severe premature ejaculation as well as heart surgery at age six and leukemia at age thirty two. After I overcame leukemia with natural methods it left me a premature ejaculator devastated by every ejaculation which then weakened me further. Through Tantra I have complete control over my ejaculations, having several whole body non-ejaculatory orgasms at will while making love for hours… and I just turned fifty-nine! I tell you this for inspiration, if I can do it so can you. Applying what I share here with a basic attitude of perseverance many men have moved beyond premature ejaculation.
There is no drug or surgery that can repair premature ejaculation, it is generally a multi-faceted syndrome requiring a combination of remedies. Talk therapy is generally insufficient on its own, yet the Tantric methods to follow combined with counselling can be very supportive and powerful, I fully endorse it. Not all will need it but do use it if you feel it will benefit you.
The definition of premature ejaculation according to the AMA is “when a man ejaculates more than fifty percent of the time before his partner orgasms”. International statistics state that the average time of penetration to ejaculation is two to seven minutes, which implies that the vast majority of men are in fact premature ejaculators!
This “norm” is weak sexual health, only about five percent of men last longer naturally without training. Sexually active men generally suffer the long term effects of excess frequent ejaculation as well. For ease of mind don’t think you are rare and everyone else is a long-lasting stud, that idea is mostly a fantasy in real life, ask any honest housewife.
Tantra offers several ways to heal premature ejaculation. Our blog offers several techniques. But if your problem is serious, we recommend a very normal, non-esoteric first step. Get a medical examination to determine if you have infections or diseases in the pelvic region of the body. That includes a urology and prostate check-up. These could be causes impeding proper function and it is important to deal with them.